You sound like a wonderful person. Gem With Flaws Joined: While I do talk to my boyfriend everyday, it's usually not for long periods of time. I can honestly say this isn't worth it. I believe when you die, you die, and you live on in memories and hearts. He would be leaving his career, something he has worked so hard for and his passion for his family. NeverMo in CA Date: NeverMo in CA Wrote: I've read many of the stories here and I know the religion is toxic. I love my former Mormon friends and family, but a relationship requires devotion and trust and understanding. She's likely openly telling her family that it's okay he's not Mormon because she's going to get him baptized.
I am not going to blame him for not putting effort into it, because he probably put as much effort into it as he could. Not sure if you are, or not. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies. I was so happy and went to him, that was how we started living together happily again. Word to the wise, wait a day or two. I'm so sick of waiting around every night and weekend to see if he will have a minute for me. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Find a good man first, one that you can trust and feel comfortable building a future with, and then worry about the profession later. It was not just frustrating but also saddening and stressful.
You will have to bring her down to reality. Notify me of new comments via email. I only hate one thing in the planet, and that's the Mormon church. But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. Honestly, the thing that makes me the craziest is the missionaries. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes. No one knows your situation the way you do.
I make significantly more money than he does as a resident, but I know that my job is secondary. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. Here is hoping I manage to land myself one of them and preferably a single one!!. It's a foolish dream I suppose.